Our state is on the verge of giving gay and lesbian couples the right to be married. It’s long overdue and deserves to be passed by the Legislature and signed into law by Gov. Chris Gregoire.

It seems like such a simple thing: letting two people who want to be married be able to do it. Unfortunately, the issue, which rubs some people’s moral core the wrong way, has been allowed to prevent what is an entirely sensible measure.

Three Eastside legislators, Sens. Steve Litzow (R – 41st District, Mercer Island), Rodney Tom (D – 48th District, Bellevue), and Rep. Glenn Anderson (R – 5th District, Fall City) have stepped forward to support the legislation. All see clearly the essential issue here: it is a civil right.

Litzow, who considers himself a “big supporter of non-discrimination,” puts it simply, saying “it’s the right thing to do.”

Tom’s take is that “there should be a separation of church and state.” We agree. Sadly, that’s where much of the problem with this right issue lies.

Many religious denominations insist that marriage must be between a man and a woman. However, we’re talking about civil marriage. Since no church would be forced to marry same-sex couples, or be punished if they refuse, their argument clearly is based on their view of morality. (Interestingly, since they feel that marriage is such a core value, we don’t see them lobbying Olympia to make divorce a crime.)

The key here is that denying two males or two females the right to marry denies them equal protection under the law. After all, there is nothing intrinsically different about male-female marriage and same-sex marriage other than pro-creation.

Marriage, civil or religions, as Anderson notes, helps the social order by allowing for an “orderly transfer of property rights for the collective good.” Also, he argues, correctly, that homosexuality, while less frequent than heterosexuality, is a “norman genetic expression of human biology.”

We know that same-sex marriage is controversial and that passage of a law won’t change attitudes overnight. As Anderson correctly observes, “it took almost 100 years from the ratification the 14th Amendment after the American Civil War until the enactment of the Civil Rights Act of the 1960s.”

Church and state are separate in this country. Government can’t tell churches what to believe and churches can’t tell government what to do or not do.

Those who don’t agree with same-sex marriage still have one option – they don’t have to attend the ceremony.

– Craig Groshart, Issaquah/Sammamish Reporter